As a creative and a writer, I recognize the immense importance that creativity plays in our early years and throughout our life.
But, if we stop to really ask ourselves how comfortable we are with creativity, most of us would agree that creativity is an uncomfortable process.
We think that in order to engage in creative tasks, we must prune our insecurities and deliver just the fruit.
But, it’s an oxymoron to think like that because:
“Creativity and insecurity go hand in hand.”
Don’t believe me?
Just think about it for just a second.
If I were to wave my magic wand (or A magic wand… I don’t have one, but it would be nice)… and grant you the ability to do the creative task that appeals to you THE MOST.
What creative task would you want to do?
Writing a book?
Writing a blog?
Oh I know… singing?
All of the above?
It really doesn’t matter if the creative task that you’d like to do is in the list or if I failed to include it.
The following question is much more important:
WHAT is keeping you from engaging in this art?
Think about it for a moment. Listen to your internal dialogue and then tell me what your “inner you” told your “outer you.”
What did you say:
That you don’t know if you can do that activity? That you don’t think you would be good enough?
Mmmmmm. That’s sad isn’t it?
That a teeny-tiny insidious, persistent, and annoying little thought… which is that you “don’t THINK” you can be great at something is keeping you from merely trying?
And before you start yelling at me indicating that you Have TRIED that skill, but that you suck at it… let me ask you: don’t you think it’s also sad that you let a less-than-stellar couple of outcomes keep you from trying to practice this skill to become better and better at it?
You’ve heard that “practice making perfect,” right?
And I get it… maybe no amount of practice will make every single creative project turn out perfectly.
But I’m sure that simply trying something creative, will give you some sense of:
relief from the day to day
a sense of gratification that you’re doing something other than “work, work, work” that is engaging your creative muscles
and FUN! (That awesome, little thing that we leave as the 143rd item on our to-do list that keeps being bumped down and down by waaaaay more boring tasks)
Therefore, an even more important question is:
WHO is keeping you from doing this art?
I’m sure that it’s pretty clear by now that the one preventing you from enjoying art and all the magic that it can have on your mind, body and soul is YOU.
So may I take your hand and encourage you to embrace art a little more and show you one way to do it?
Okay. Sounds good. Here we go! =)
I Totally Understand That Being A Creative Is Scary
… but trust me when I say that it’s much easier than going to a soul-sucking job, hand-washing stuck-on food or cleaning a toilet.
You wanna know a little secret to how to embrace your artistic side a little more?
Make art with your kids…. the younger they are, the better.
There are many benefits to this, but for now, suffice it to say that I recommend doing art with them becauuuuuuse… your art skills are more than likely better than theirs.
OMG! 😮 Yes, I said that! And you probably can’t believe that I did. I know it sounds rude.
BUT, if you need a little bit of confidence… well, there it is.
Hahaha. You’re probably thinking… that this art thing is gonna be a wild ride just because I shared this video, which in my opinion, has one of the most catchy songs of all time. And well, yeah, maybe art is gonna be a wild ride, but why not incorporate some music and dancing ASAP? 😉
That’s art, after all.
But Don’t Worry, You’re Not A Narcissist, Making Art Is Not All About You
A few years ago, having realized how much I wanted to create art and how hesitant I was about creating it, I asked an Australian artist who has earned millions after following a simple yet powerful impulse to create art this question:
“What is the best way to foster creativity in our children?”
“Provide them with opportunities to create art and with opportunities for them to see YOU create art.”
To be honest with you, I was expecting her to give me tactics, tips, strategies, the goods (all in plural) to boosting my child’s art ability, not mine.
But as soon as I heard her answer… it totally resonated with me.
It was SUCH a simple answer that makes so much sense.
As parents we know that the best way to influence our children is to set an example for them. This is no different.
“We resist making art, because it brings our “not-good-enoughness” out of us.” -Haydee Montemayor
And it’s sooo silly that we resist making it…because despite the fact that we avoid it because we don’t wan’t to feel insecure or inadequate about the quality of our art, if we’re honest with ourselves, we all have an innate yearning to create art.
You feel it.
I feel it.
We all do.
Want a bit of proof of that?
When you hear that we should all focus on trying to make a career doing something that we enjoy…. you’re in either one of two camps.
The one who is doing it, and living proof of this…. because you have a career that you totally enjoy.
OR, the type of person who resists this advice because you think that life is SUPPOSED to be hard…and non-creative. And that the creative things that we do in our life are just hobbies.
“Life is not supposed to be hard, it’s supposed to be heart.” -Haydee Montemayor
Yes, heart. The heart should lead. Life is supposed to be love. Love is supposed to be passion.
I get it that not 100% of the time… but if we want to feel as alive as possible… we have to be less in our heads, and more in our hearts.
“Art removes the shackles of the constraints that we place on ourselves.” -Haydee Montemayor
I loved the artist’s answer and it’s one that I will never forget because it gets rid of the excuses of fostering creativity through art. And since implementing it, it has made SUCH a huge difference in my family’s life.
Next week, I will share more about how to foster art into your family’s life using the Mother Goose Curriculum that I was given for sharing my experience using it.
Now Is Your Turn
What’s the best advice you’ve ever gotten when it comes to art?
In a world filled with too much information and too many products, it’s difficult to choose. So, what do we do? We read reviews, such as those on Amazon and we ask for recommendations from people who are in a similar situation as us. So if you’re wondering what preschool curriculum you should choose, here are 10 reasons why you’ll love Mother Goose Time.
12 Reasons Why You’ll Love Mother Goose Time
Reason #1: You Get To Make Your Child A Priority
We have way too many things to fill our day with.
It doesn’t matter if you stretch your days horizontally and wake up earlier and go to bed later… you’ll always have more to do.
It also doesn’t matter if you stretch your days vertically and work every weekend and weekday, you still probably won’t have enough time to do all that you want to do.
So, I have a tip for you that I often have to remind myself of:
“Instead of thinking of the million different reasons why you can’t spend more time with your child, make it your #1 daily goal to actually spend time with your child.” – Haydee Montemayor
And while playing board games, watching movies and taking leisurely strolls in the park is perhaps difficult for our adult brains to think of as “constructive use” of our time and our child’s time… (because we may think that those activities are waayyyy too relaxing and waaaaayyyy too much fun), it is easier to “brainwash” yourself into doing an educational activity, because you think you’re still being productive.
But newsflash, your kids don’t care about being productive. they care about spending more time with you.
So whether you decide to play, relax or teach them something… they’ll appreciate it, deep down.
Reason #2: You Get To Be In The Front Row Seat
Pretend, that your child is the driver of their life… and you’re they’re co-pilot.
When you take the time to teach them, you get to see the emotional, psychological, spiritual and physical direction your kid is taking.
You get to see projects that your kids work on, not based on what someone else taught them, but rather, you see the whole procedure of how that project came to life…. thanks to your guidance.
“Who do you want to be in your child’s life? Someone who sees snapshots of your child’s educational travel album? Or someone who takes the journey with them?” – Haydee Montemayor
By teaching them, you get to see not just what your kids make, but also how they make it.
And their thought behind that creation.
What they struggle with.
What they enjoy, the connections that they make.
And you get to see the creator himself/herself.
In sum, you get to see the brainstorming session, the rough draft, the finished product, the bloopers, and perhaps most importantly, the way in which these little weekly and daily lessons transform your child right before your eyes.
“When you’re involved in your child’s life, you get to see the brainstorm, the rough draft, the bloopers and the finished yet evolutionary masterpiece.” -Haydee Montemayor
Reason #3: You’ll Expose Your Kids To Lessons That You Wouldn’t Have Otherwise
For example, if you were teaching your children about ponds, would you ever talk about…algae?
Yeah, you might mention it… but would you ACTUALLY have the materials and the resources to spend a half-day or a full day talking about algae?
Would you talk about submerged pond plants? For half a day or a full day?
How about bog plants? (Do you even know what those are?)
Emergent pond plants?
Floating pond plants?
A water strider?
A backswimmer? (And nope, I’m not talking about a person who swims on their back).
Reason #4: This Curriculum Is Pretty Much “Open And Use”
Why do I say open?
Because when you OPEN the box, you literally have about 23 or 24 bags.
Each of the 20 weekday daily lesson that you’ll use for a given month comes in its own separate bag, in 20 Day Bags.
If it’s your first kit, you’ll get a Welcome Kit.
The Teacher Tool Kit which comes in its own bag will contain the resources.
The Circle Time Resources come in their own bag
If there are any holidays in that month, the Celebration Kit / Holiday Resources will come in their own bag, as well.
Reason #5: You’ll Have Researched-based And Multi-disciplinary Lessons That Correspond To One Theme For One Full Month
While many of us “super moms” want to think that we’re super savvy and that we could potennntially pull these types of lessons from the internet, the truth is, it’s actually much more complicated than it looks to put together a comprehensive curriculum.
It would probably take you at least one month to simply to put the resources together in this fluid, interconnected and meaningful way. I’m not kidding.
Even if it took you half that time, that would mean you would be preparing the materials for half a month…each month.
Think about it, even if you wanted to put this curriculum together, you would need to get multiple things:
The daily activities for talking about the calendar, weather and schedule in Circle Time… that related to the monthly theme
2 songs (one for the beginning of the day, the other for the end of the day) and their adapted words so that the songs that correspond to both the daily lesson AND that also tied into the monthly theme
the opening activity discussion topics
the lessons (about 3 a day, with multiple mini-lessons in each)
the learning manipulatives
the craft materials, cutouts, art inspiration pieces
The daily recommended books
the included book
the investigation lessons
The planning guide
The closing activity discussion topics
In your busy life, that’s probably already topped to the brim, do you honestly think that you could devote this amount of time to compiling all these resources and ALSO have the time to teach your kids? Nope, I didn’t think so… because I don’t have that kind of time either.
Even if you could pull that off.. would you be able to teach your kids lovingly and patiently? I’ll let you answer your own question.
Reason #6: It’s High Quality
Mother Goose Time lessons are high quality not only in terms of the quality of the materials themselves, but most importantly, they’re high-quality academically -speaking.
Simply, said, the lessons themselves are high quality.
You see, learning is simply connections.
Think of them as links.
Or links that relate to one another.
When you start digging into knowledge… you would tend to think that knowledge is like columns.
You would think that all the concepts that we know are one initial link (the first link). Then, when we come across something new in our life that’s related to that initial link, we link the new link (the second link) to that initial link (the first link) to make a connection between the two concepts.
Scientifically speaking, each concept is called, schema or schemata (plural). All the concepts that we know are schema… and when we add more pieces of information to that original schema, our understanding of the subject becomes deeper.
But, as you can imagine, well know, and have experienced… knowledge isn’t always linear.
As a matter of fact, it rarely ever is.
There aren’t perfect “rows of knowledge” or “rows of concepts” that go on forever.
“Knowledge is like a web, in which the rows of concepts connect between themselves and everything ultimately ends up being interconnected.” – Haydee Montemayor
With Mother Goose Time, you will be able to help your child make even more connections and see more patterns than they normally would in order to help them understand the world because you would have taught them the majority of the lessons yourself, so that would give you the leverage or knowledge to help them link concept links.
You could bring up one memory after the other to make this sort of connection.
For example… you could say:
Remember when you helped me cook…?
Remember when we went…?
Remember when grandma told you about…?
Remember the book we read that talked about…?
Remember the game we played that… ?
These types of questions are endless.
And the beauty about a program like Mother Goose Time, is that often, you don’t have to be the one to bring up these connections because it will be your child saying things like:
This is like…
Like Thomas the Train…
Like The Hungry Caterpillar…
Like the birds that we talked about…
Remember when you read me the book… ?
In other words, they will link lessons to lessons, lessons to the natural world, lessons to stories and lessons to their toys. It’s all good. It’s learning.
Reason #7 You’ll Better Understand The Types Of Activities That Are Adequate For Your Kids At This Age
As parents, we think we know what activities are best for our kids, but… new toys come out. New educational research is done. There are safety recalls that are done. School standards change. Development research continues to develop.
In other words, we can’t just rely on toys to educate our children. But knowing the right educational activities is hard.
You know why? Because educational activities aren’t necessarily “good” or “bad” (unless the content that you’re teaching in these educational activities is good or bad)… but I’ve found that the best activities for preschoolers are those that are well-designed… but open ended.
In other words, what we’re gauging, is at the pre-school level is each child’s abilities, as well as their potential.
So their abilities and potential aren’t necessarily “good” or “bad.”
“Kids are like seeds. You have to nurture them, but you gotta give them space to grow.” – Haydee Montemayor
They are unique and will blossom in their own time.
Reason #8: You’ll See Your Kids Enjoy Mother Goose Time Like Crazy!
And it’s one thing to read about your kids potentially enjoying Mother Goose Time,.. and it’s a whole other thing to see them really experience and enjoy those activities.
You know that as parents we’re totally susceptible to the joy of our children.
And just to give you a little bit of perspective… imagine how you would have felt as a kid learning about the world in a fun, crafty and super-engaging way. That’s how Mother Goose Time is.
Reason #9: You Can Get In Touch With Your Own Creativity
So now that you have started to imagine how fun it would have been to learn in this way form potentially the comfort of your own home, and from your parents who would have made the time for you, let me just let you know that even if you’re saying internally…
“Yeah, right, my parents wouldn’t have done this for me/ been able to do this for me/ or made the time to teach me this way.” … forget your parents.
Now, that YOU’RE a parent, you can not only parent your child like this….
BUT… there is a big BUT right here…. you can also participate in these activities.
It will not only be beneficial for you, but it will be beneficial for your child (I’ll talk more about this in my next post).
But suffice it to say, you’ll have fun by getting in touch with your creativity.
Reason #10 You Can Learn A Thing Or Two
If you’re a TRUE, sincere learner, you KNOW that this is just a given.
You don’t know it all. You weren’t taught it all. You weren’t exposed to it all.
So learning about bog plants or emergent pond plants… along with your child is perfectly acceptable.
There’s no shame whatsoever. Remember, stay humble. Most importantly, express true wonder and curiosity about the things that you and your child are learning, and you’ll turboboost your child’s capacity to wonder about the world… for life.
Reason #11 You’ll Have The Satisfaction Of Teaching Your Children
This is one of those reasons that can’t be said enough.
YOU, mom, YOU dad, are MORE capable than teaching your child their shapes, the colors, the numbers and their ABC’s.
Is that clear?
And while the amount of items you get with the Mother Goose Time curriculum is A LOT. And maybe a little bit overwhelming if you’ve never taught before, please know that the lessons are explained SO well..and the curriculum is so user friendly that you really can’t mess it up.
And just so you know, the Family Newsletter will provide you with parent-friendly ideas to start making connections between the concepts that you’ll teach your child and their day-to-day life.
“Any lesson, big or small… delivered as often as possible, to your children, will boost their joy for learning and your joy for teaching. ” – Haydee Montemayor
YOU ARE your child’s 1st teacher.
And while it might be tempting to wait for some distant future to get here for someone else to teach your children all they need to know (a.k.a. a school teacher)… let me tell you this, in the most loving way possible… NO TEACHER… like NONE, will ever be with your child for most of their life…. to teach them everything that they “have to” know. Zero.
YOU were chosen to be with your child from day 1.
And while there is a special place in the world for teachers, who by the way deserve WAYYYYY much more praise than they get, remember that your child is YOUR diamond.
You don’t ask a person to take care of your diamonds for you for most of the year, for most years and years, do you?
(Unless maybe you have one of those safe boxes at a bank).
My point is, your child, your diamond, is YOUR treasure. Love and Treasure them.
(That’s the whole point about this blog… to remind you and to remind me, those and that which is truly worthy of us loving and treasuring them).
Reason #12 You’ll Make Memories With Your Children
Again, I can just sigh thinking about this reason.
“Memories are the imaginary, yet very real photos in our hearts, minds and souls in which we are accompanied and we accompany the people who we love and the people who love us.” – Haydee Montemayor
And speaking of, crafts, these lessons, aside from having an educational value, have a memory-keeping value.
These lessons provide:
great photo-taking opportunities
and even creating a portfolio, scrapbook or file of what their best, most meaningful activities are at this point in their lives.
You will one day be able to look back and see how your children wrote their name, their last name, colored, did art, cut paper and drew.
These precious moments of learning are happening in front of our eyes, and if we don’t stop to pay attention and record them, they will slip us by and we won’t remember them.
It really doesn’t matter how good of a memory you have or how much you love your children… you will forget things, so be able to preserve the things along these learning journey that you think you and your child will cherish in a few years.
To Wrap Up
Hopefully, you feel encouraged by these 12 reasons to engage in your child’s learning.
Find high quality lessons, a homeschool curriculum of your choice or use Mother Goose Time to teach your kids.
The most important resources are you and your child.
If you’re worried about teaching your child educational lessons the wrong way, don’t be.
In the case of Mother Goose Time, there is greater flexibility in these lessons than you would initially think because the curriculum isn’t mandated by a school institution or school district.
You are simply teaching your child based on the materials provided and your knowledge of the child themselves, which is a great plus.
To give you some encouragement and to let you know that “You’ve Got This” perhaps the one thing that you should keep in mind with the Mother Goose Time Curriculum (or any other pre-school curriculum) is that its slogan, which you’ll be reminded of every time you open the box says it all…. “Helping You Grow Lifelong Learners.”
And isn’t that what life is really about? Helping, growing and learning for a lifetime?
And I even would dare to say that the best way that we can show our children how to be lifelong learners is by being lifelong learners ourselves… and for them being able to be on that learning journey with us. After all, it’s a two-way street. 😃 We benefit from their company and they benefit from ours.
Now It’s Your Turn
Have you used Mother Goose Time? If so, as a grown-up, what is it that you love most about it?
If you haven’t yet tried it, which of the reasons mentioned above makes you the most excited in trying it? Or better yet, to simply using whatever resources you can to teach your child?
Children have a more wholistic view about the world through their multi-disciplinary lessons
You teach, plus your children learn, about patterns, which will turboboost their learning.
Bringing Learning To Life Through Multi-Disciplinary Experiences
Some of the best experiences we can have are multi-sensory. And some of the best lessons we can be part of are multidisciplinary.
Multidisciplinary lessons are lessons that are from different disciplines, which are better known as subjects such as reading, writing, math, spelling and so on.
The neat thing about having a curriculum that combines many disciplines, is that you can customize the curriculum this curriculum not only based on your child’s needs but on your memories and experiences as a family.
Do you remember how slowly one year seemed go by when YOU were a kid?
You savored every season. You were barely done celebrating one holiday when you wanted to celebrate the other.
And it wasn’t just those holidays that had a long vacation attached to them that you enjoyed. You enjoyed pretty much all of them, because they gave you the opportunity to celebrate in community.
Holidays At Home
One of the best things about teaching your children at home is that you help your kids foster a love for learning, and a love for holiday celebrations.
Introducing holidays to your kids for the first time is even more special because they’ll always remember (knock on wood) when you introduced them to this holiday. But even if they don’t remember everything you taught them, when they go to traditional school, they will already have a notion about what that holiday is.
While everybody’s situation is different, here are 7 factors to consider before sending your kids to traditional preschool (if you have the opportunity to either send your children to preschool or not send them):
The cons of sending your kids to preschool
The pros of homeschooling your preschooler
Your kid’s desires and the impact consideration (or lack of consideration) of those desires will have on the relationship between you and your child
The importance of truly valuing the process of education
How to handle peer pressure
Listening to your heart and intuition
A happy solution for addressing early education
Top 5 Cons of Sending Your Kids To Traditional Preschool
As convenient as sending your kids to preschool may seem…. it is important that you fully think-through the ramifications of what sending your kids to preschool can mean for your family.
Let’s start off with the tiny things and work our way up.
Propensity To Get Sick
Your kids will be exposed to more germs year-round and this will increase their propensity of getting sick. And getting their siblings sick. And getting you sick. (Bet you hadn’t thought of this possibility thoroughly, had you?)
Yes, this germ exposure will strengthen their immune systems, hopefully, but that doesn’t take away from the fact that they’ll get sick.
You Will Start To Chauffeur Your Child Around A Year Sooner*
(* Or more, depending on what age your kids are when you send them to preschool).
This might not seem like a big deal, but it’ll have repercussions on your night routine, sleep (or lack of it), morning routine, time, stress, gas, pocketbook, vacations and end-of-the-school-day arrangements.
They Will Pick Up Bad Habits
Umm, how can we put this lightly? The more people your kids encounter, the more ideas they’ll get (whether they’re positive or negative). And no, our kids aren’t saints, but as parents we try our best to minimize their exposure to certain things in life, language, topics, bad habits, ways of being. And when they’re not under our supervision, what they get exposed to is not something that we can control. And that will be tough on you. But more than ever, character development is important.
You Will Surrender Teaching, Educating And Your Overall Time With Your Children To Someone Else During This Impressionable Age AND Your Authority, Whether You Like It Or Not, May Be Diminished
You will no longer be the only one your kids want to please. Take that in for just a second. Yep, someone else can be above you in their totem pole of “the important people in their life” and that will hurt your heart, your soul, and let’s face it, your ego. You will probably start hearing things like, “my teacher says that __.” or “That’s not the way my teacher Ms./Mr. (blank) taught me.” And while yes, there are other adults who can show your child about school subjects, life, and manners… sharing your child’s love, appreciation and admiration with other people may be difficult. Plus, knowing kids, what other people teach them can be used to challenge you.
You Will Miss Your Child When They’re Away
And once you let them go to school… it’ll be a constant letting go. That time that you decide that you want them to spend in preschool will be time that you will never, EVER get back. (Don’t you just get teary-eyed thinking about it?)
One of the things that I value the most is education.
One of my favorite values is intelligence.
One of the activities I most cherish is spending time with my kids and teaching them.
So, when the opportunity came up to receive the Mother Goose Time curriculum for free in exchange for sharing my experience with this curriculum, I accepted.
What Is The Mother Goose Curriculum?
The Mother Goose Curriculum is a curriculum for 2 1/2 to 5 year olds.
It is created for mothers to teach their children but it is so comprehensive enough that it is also used by many day care centers and pre-schools.
What Do I Love Most About Mother Goose Time?
What I love most about this company is precisely the vision they used to design this curriculum which is for parents to have the opportunity to have “more time to observe, know and be with your children.”
Isn’t that great?! I almost want to give a standing ovation to THAT!
What’s not to love about seeing your children bloom right before your eyes?